Find Your Tribe Humans

 Find Your Tribe                                                             

Humans are social creatures. Without positive, social contact and support we simply wither and lose ourselves. You only need to consider the plight of the elderly who often find themselves housebound and without visitors for days, if not weeks, on end. Just think about what kind of effect this has upon them  

If we don’t have supportive people around us, we feel detached, misunderstood and lonely. But when you have your own tribe of friends around to support you, life will never be the same again. They will give you the power to realize your wildest dreams and withstand the worst things that life can throw at you. You will feel loved and understood for the unique person that you are, no matter what you have or what you do. It’s about finding people that share your view of the world and can easily comprehend your perspective of the world.

 Finding Friends As Adults 

Once we leave high school or college and grow older, it can be so much harder to find people who could form these tribes. Don't worry - we've all been there. But where can we find them? What should we say to them when we do find them? And how do we create meaningful relationships with those around us? In actual fact, finding friends as an adult is a lot like dating. You need to get yourself out there and be open to the world and what it has to offer without being overly worried about the outcome, no matter how important that outcome might feel to you right now. You may feel a little shy or doubtful at the start, but remember that everybody feels this way. Talk to people wherever you go, even if that’s just to the local library. You’ll be surprised at who you might meet in there. And by complimenting someone’s hair or shoes, you may just brighten their day. Don’t discount the idea of joining a class, taking up a new hobby or even reviving an old one. By doing this you may meet like-minded people with similar interests, giving you the perfect conversational topic to help ‘break the ice’. You’ll build your own happiness as well as finding your tribe. Just try it out. What one thing could you do to meet more like-minded people? Take your time to ponder this question and then take action!